I just went into the BBC and listened to the rest of the answering machine tape (thanks for suggesting this, Dupin). Anna, I don't want to write down here exactly what you left in your message. But you clearly know this man as well. And you know him better than as your sister's ex-husband. Were you involved with him also? I think you were, so I need you to tell me the whole story. It sounds like this is why you two fell out. Is it? And is that you in the photo? I did try to talk to the police about Helen - like you suggested - but they wouldn't tell me anything. It's time for you to tell me.
I also had another look at that photo of the bar I recognised - the one I called 'Nicky's Bar' - the first time I've remembered anything. The BBC have identified it as a cafe in Paris. If I could go, I'd get on the next train - but I can't without a passport. Does anyone recognise it? Do you work there? Or maybe someone saw me in there with someone called Nicky?
I'm not going to hide any more. Here's my photo:
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